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What Happens in a Dominance/Submission Relationship?
Dominance-submission has the elements of obedience, surrender, service, discipline, demeanor, punishment and mind-fucking.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 26, 202411 min read
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Figging — the Kink of Putting Ginger Up Your Butt
Figging is inserting ginger in the anus or the vagina to produce a burning erotic sensation
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 30, 20248 min read
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How to Recognize Abuse in BDSM Relationships
Red flags for abuse in BDSM.
Hermes Solenzol
Mar 29, 202410 min read
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Altered States of Consciousness in BDSM
BDSM induces altered states of consciousness known as sub-space and top-space
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 14, 20248 min read
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Consent Is Not As Simple As It Seems
Understanding consent is key to prevent sexual abuse and rape.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 12, 202412 min read
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The Difference Between Sadism and Cruelty
Sadism is the consensual infliction of physical or emotional pain while cruelty is to make people suffer for an ulterior goal.
Hermes Solenzol
Dec 2, 20238 min read
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What To Do If Choking Goes Wrong
Advice on what to do if a person choked during sex of BDSM is unconscious or does not have a pulse.
Hermes Solenzol
Nov 14, 20234 min read
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Evidence of Brain Damage Caused by Choking During Sex
Scientific studies show that women who are choked have more psychological problems and changes in brain connectivity.
Hermes Solenzol
Oct 11, 20236 min read
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Can Choking During Sex Cause Brain Damage?
Choking during sex can produce brain damage from neuronal death from anoxia, reperfusion injury, and changes in heartbeat.
Hermes Solenzol
Sep 30, 20236 min read
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Breath Play: The Air Choke and the Blood Choke
Asphyxia during sex can be done using an air choke or a blood choke, which block air entry or the blood supply to the brain, respectively.
Hermes Solenzol
Sep 29, 20233 min read
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How deathly is choking during sex?
Death by autoerotic asphyxiation is less common that thought. Still, choking is the most deathly BDSM activity.
Hermes Solenzol
Sep 21, 20233 min read
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Why do people enjoy being choked?
People like to be choked because they find it pleasurable.
Hermes Solenzol
Sep 20, 20235 min read
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How Common Is Sexual Choking?
Several surveys show that college students increasingly practice choking during sex
Hermes Solenzol
Sep 16, 20232 min read
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The Origins of Dominance-Submission
Dominance-submission frees ourselves from the psychological pressure of pride and shame.
Hermes Solenzol
May 8, 20237 min read
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Cannabis Neuroscience - Cannabinoids and Endocannabinoids
The endocannabinoids anandamide and 2-AG act as retrograde neurotransmitters in synaptic plasticity and memory formation, anxiety and pain.
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 19, 20236 min read
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Controversial Issues in BDSM
Controversial issues in BDSM include sexual predators, consent, choking, drugs, mental problems and domestic discipline.
Hermes Solenzol
Apr 10, 20237 min read
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A Review of 'Radical Ecstasy'
Review of Radical Ecstasy, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, a book about the intersection of BDSM and mysticism.
Hermes Solenzol
Feb 9, 20233 min read
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The Knife
Erotic story in which a butch lesbian dominates a rich blonde using mind-fucking, forced nudity and knife play.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 30, 202312 min read
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Mind-Fucking in BDSM: Safety, Consent and Learned Helplessness
Mind-fucking in BDSM presents unique challenges to avoid breaking consent, trauma, and inducing learned helplessness.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 23, 202311 min read
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The Art of Mind-Fucking
In BDSM, mind-fucking are mental games that produce defeat and surrender in the submissive.
Hermes Solenzol
Jan 15, 202313 min read
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